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I find it really ironic that Korea has managed to create media that connects with and excites the masses in a way that living in Korea …just doesn’t.
In fact, Korea is far more inhospitable to foreigners than Japan is.
But don’t get suckered as many a man before you has – Japanese girls are skilled manipulators of men. Want super sexy, in heels, tight skirts and lots of skin? Some guys are turned off by their sexuality, or lack thereof, saying that they don’t have the porn star moves of western women.
Your Japanese girl will HAPPILY cook, clean, wash and fold your clothes, do your dishes, and give you a back rub all at the same time! Kidding aside, they really want to please their man, a drive that’s getting rather uncommon around the world these days. These “submissive” chicks will put you to sleep with their caring so there’s a real danger that you’ll wake up 5 years later married with kids, sexless, and living with her parents! Many a Western man has married a Japanese girl only to find that all that caring shifted 100% towards the children and he was left to fulfill his role as a walking wallet. But believe me when I tell you that they are willing to learn.
This is one of the factors that makes it such a fascinating country to watch and to live in.
It never gets boring and even local Japanese media loves to continuously find new sub-cultures to expose and market to.
That said, the dating market for older singles isn’t all that easy. There just aren’t that many available singles our age and the ones who are available are an interesting lot (read Anne Lamott’s funny take of her year on to understand).
What’s more, because it’s totally normal and acceptable for singles to live at home, almost all of the money they make goes directly into their own pockets.
Free room and board(usually), means they live and eat for free or close to it.
Because men have shorter lifespans, many older men are interested in having a potential caregiver or a “nurse with a purse.” They tend to marry quicker than older women, but it isn’t because older women can’t find a hubby; it’s because women are more likely to be looking for a short-term relationship or a companion, not a husband.
That isn’t true for my three girlfriends, but it’s true for me.
The persistent belief is that women are looking for long-term committed relationship and men are looking for short-term sexual relationships.